The bed project I am currently working uses alot of tenon and mortise joinery. I have to admit I do get mytenons and mortises wrong sometimes.
When the piece is an 8ft long section of wide oak, it's hard tostart over. The tenon needs to be fixed. This post should get youstarted on how to fix your mistakes.
1) The tenon won't fit into the mortise
Wood needs to be removed. The best tool for the job is ashoulder plane. It was practically made for the task. If you don'thave one sand paper will do.
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